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Every baby is a unique individual with a distinct personality and a set of challenges that have to be overcome. When a baby is born prematurely, the challenges involved in caring for that child are significantly greater than would be the case if the baby had been born full term. But thanks to advances in medicine and the care and support of dedicated healthcare workers, premature babies are doing better today than they ever have in the past.
This website is dedicated to everything you need to know about premature babies. Here you will find information about breastfeeding, finding nappies and clothing, what you can expect at different stages of growth and development, and more. Hopefully, you will discover a wealth of information and knowledge you can always refer to as the parent of a premature baby.
Please note that there is help and support available throughout the UK. Between the medical community and support groups, parents of premature babies can get all the help they so desperately need.
As the parent of a premature baby, the most important thing for you to know from the start is that you are not alone. Some 60,000 babies are born prematurely in the UK every single year. These babies are every bit as precious to their parents as full-term babies, and they deserve every chance at a long, fulfilling, and productive life.
For purposes of definition, a baby is considered premature if born before 37 weeks. The fact that due dates are just estimates indicates that classifying a child as premature can become a little uncertain the closer you get to the 37-week mark. Nonetheless, pre-term birth is the leading cause of death among newborns and the second biggest cause of death in children under the age of five.
Science classifies premature birth under three categories:
Statistics suggest that 10% of all pregnancies end in a premature birth. Babies born earlier than 23 weeks have a very small survival rate for obvious reasons. At 23 weeks the survival rate is 15%; babies born at 24 weeks have a 55% survival rate while those born at 25 weeks or later survive 80% of the time.
The good news for parents in England is that the survival rate for premature babies increased from 53% in 2006 to 80% in 2011. But survival does not necessarily mean that parents can stop worrying. Children born at or before 27 weeks are more likely to experience some form of disability by the time they reach six years of age.
Parents of premature babies certainly have a lot to deal with right from the start. And if parents are first-time parents, things can easily get overwhelming within the first few days of childbirth. Over time, though, parents do get into a routine as they learn how to care for their children properly. At some point, many parents also come to the realisation that they are more than just parents – they are also advocates for their babies.
Hospitals and their medical staff are very good at what they do in terms of caring for premature babies. But our healthcare system is overwhelmed. Doctors, nurses and specialists simply do not have the time or resources to dedicate to meeting each and every need of premature babies. Therefore, it's up to parents to take on the role of advocate to make sure their children get the care and support they require.
There are four critical aspects of advocacy the parents of premature babies learn over time:
Interestingly enough, parents of premature babies often discover hidden abilities and talents they never knew they had. Some of them are born out of the need to provide care for the children while others have always been there, just needing an outlet. One way or another, parents of premature babies tend to find that caring for their children is a transformational experience that changes both them and their baby’s lives forever.
By the time a surviving premature baby is ready to go home, the parents are already well-versed in the basics of day-to-day care. Still, they face a new challenge: upon leaving the hospital 100% of the child care is now in the hands of these parents. Where they had doctors and nurses to help them in the hospital, they are taking full responsibility for the child when they take him/her home. This is where the help and support of family members is critical.
In a practical sense, the best thing family members can do for parents of premature children is invest time in learning how to provide basic care. Parents can get so bogged down that they drive themselves to the point of exhaustion trying to do everything. Just being able to take a break and step away for one or two nights a week can be a godsend.
Of course, there are other practical aspects to deal with as well. Parents of premature children have to be concerned about things other parents take for granted. Even the following basics are simply more difficult when you are talking about a premature baby:
Parents tend to have a much easier time with a premature baby when family members pitch in to help. Thankfully there are classes family members can take that will help them make a real contribution to both parents and their premature babies. When families come together for the benefit of the baby, great things can happen.
Being the parent of a premature baby is no easy task. But the time, effort, and love parents put into their children are all worth it. A baby is a precious gift. A precious gift and a new life just waiting to be nurtured along an incredible journey that we are also fortunate to experience.
Aug 10, 2016
Although we have gave away free nappies for in excess of 130 families we still find that we have many left over. So a decision has been made to give the remaining nappies to a local support group in Corby
Jul 29, 2016
The moment I found out that I was pregnant was a very emotional time, I was only 16 and pregnancy and a baby was not something I had planned.